I will start this post by saying that it is not all right to feed your kids junk because, “They are kids” or “because they are active” or “because they will burn it off”.
This might seem harsh to some of you and that’s something I’m ok with. We all need a dose of harsh reality. If you choose to stop reading now, that’s ok too, but you will find value in what I have to say here, so read away.
If you feed them chicken nuggets and pop tarts, they’ll be learning that it’s ok to avoid spending 5 minutes preparing a meal. You are coating their palates / tongues with salt, sugar and some grand chemicals. I know the excuse that’s coming, “They wont eat anything other than chicken nuggets and pop tarts.” Then that’s what you’ve accepted and allowed. That’s your doing, not theirs. Who bought it and who made it for them? Kids learn what they live.
Parenting is tough and at times can be thankless. It’s part of your job to teach them right from wrong, AND to teach them healthy from unhealthy.
Now I know people are getting all fired up reading this and are thinking, “Come on Carrie, they’re kids, let them have a treat” or “Carrie’s poor kids must be miserable.”
I think it’s fine to have a treat, but treats with every meal? NO, not a chance. Replacing real food with something that comes out of a box? NO. Making excuses why you can’t / won’t cook? NO. I have 3 small children work full-time and I can still manage to make healthy meals. It can be done!
Would I love if many of you did a complete overhaul of your pantry/fridge? Yes!!! I realize that will be a process. Start by adding in more veggies. I would also say, be the parent. Don’t accept the fuss that is put up when the kids won’t eat the food that is prepared. Start incorporating veggies that the kids like and then expand into other veggies. This is not the eat the Brussels sprouts or else blog post 🙂
Work with what they like and find similar vegetables to add in. If they like potatoes, then sweet potatoes would be the next one to add in. If they like cucumber then next try zucchini. If they like green peppers then add in some red and yellow peppers.
I’m notorious for pureeing veggies and adding them to meatloaf, chili, hamburgers, etc.
Here is what I do: I make sure they have some fruit with breakfast-cut up apple (they seem to eat more when it is cut up for them) I pack fruit and a vegetable with their lunch-after school snack is a mix-some days it is a veggie and some days it is fruit-I alternate so they don’t get bored and dinner is another serving of vegetables. I also use different cooking techniques, stir fry, grilled, steamed, baked–they like variety just like you!
I will say stop buying crap. If you don’t buy it, it won’t be in the house. Chicken nuggets and hot pockets fall into this category as do pop tarts, sugary cereal, etc. This is just being lazy, sorry, but it is. Kids don’t understand the health issues; so don’t let them dictate what you are buying and making. They don’t need to eat these kinds of foods-they don’t -end of story.
Why do you willingly want to feed them all of these unknown chemicals, preservatives and fake meat while not really understand the long-term damage they are doing. I do believe that there is long-term damage–with the increase of cancers and other deadly diseases. I believe there is a link to ingesting all of these unknown chemicals/preservatives.
One thing that is known….if kids don’t learn healthy from unhealthy, they will go into their adult lives not knowing the difference and struggle with their weight. Why would you do that to them?? Take it from me, growing up and getting bigger and bigger as a teen was the worst feeling. When you feel that bad as a teen, you eat more and get bigger. If you’re struggling with your weight now as an adult why, then why in the world would you ever want to pass that along to your kids????????
Think of how you can “make-over” your pantry/fridge. Think of how you can replace the junk/crap with healthier choices. Remember though, just because it says “healthy”, “organic”, “lower in fat” doesn’t mean it is. We call that clever marketing!!
Best choices: Food that doesn’t have a label. Next, learn how to read a food label and teach your kids to do it as well. Empower them to make healthier choices.
Here is your food label decoded:
Look at the serving size-then look at the calories- look at the grams of sugar–my kids can’t have anything if the grams of sugar is over 9 grams per serving!
Take a glance of the ingredients….do you know what those words mean? If you need a chemical science degree to understand the words on a box of food–put it down!
You know you feel better when you have eaten well, and you know how you feel after you have had pizza and cake…bloated, tired, cranky. Kids can feel the same then they act up and you wonder why????!!!!! Also, be kind to teachers. Don’t send your kids to school with their blood sugar sky-high after eating a bowl of Froot Loops PS….there is no fruit in a Froot Loop!! 🙂
If you clean up the pantry/fridge and start making real food, your entire family will be better for it. Your kids will perform better at school and their sports.
Uggghhhhh, I feel another blog post coming on (aka rant) kids, nutrition and sports…..hold on to your helmets and dance shoes….that one should be a dooozie!!
This is your health and the health and future of your family, make the changes so that you can all live healthy lives.
Ok, tomorrow……sports and performance nutrition for you future all stars……I will give you a heads up….Tim Bits are not on the approved list…hahahhaha